
More Reflections
The Logical Song: What Have We Accepted as True Without Ever Choosing It?
ByCherylSome songs ask questions that refuse to age. Supertramp’s “The Logical Song” begins in childhood, in a world experienced as beautiful, magical, and full of possibility. Then education begins. Expectations arrive. The child is taught how to become sensible, practical, dependable, acceptable, and appropriately defined. But beneath all that learning, a more troubling question survives:…
Special Needs and Normal Development
ByCherylWhen you have a child with special needs, it’s easy to only see how different your child is from “normal” children. While they are young and developing, the usual milestones missed are glaringly obvious. I have come to realize, though, that there are actually some areas in which our special children follow the norm. Usually,…
The Sacred in the Ordinary
ByCheryl“Attention is the beginning of devotion.” — Mary Oliver I keep coming back to that sentence. Devotion sounds like such a big word. We associate it with faith, prayer, commitment, love, worship, service. Things we deliberately give ourselves to. But Mary Oliver begins somewhere much smaller. Attention. Before devotion, notice. Before meaning, notice. Before gratitude,…
Ryland’s Journey (so far)
ByCherylEven in the special needs’ community, Ry is special. He doesn’t usually fit into any of the molds – he doesn’t act like most of his peers. He’s been an individual since he was born. It’s been a long, exciting and sometimes frustrating journey with him, and it still isn’t over. We’ve only just begun…
When Life Falls Apart…
ByCherylWhen something in life happens that pulls the rug completely out from under you, things can get pretty ugly pretty quick. Your whole world seems to shatter around you and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. There is no steadying yourself or jumping back up on your feet right away. You are…
When the Meds Stop Working
ByCherylThere is no worse feeling for me than when my meds stop working. It is a great wake-up call that my depression is alive and well and ready to take me over if I let my guard down. Right now, I am in the process of transitioning my medication. I’ve been on Effexor for years…