
More Reflections
I’ll Stand By You: What Happens When We Let Someone Else In?
ByCherylWho are you willing to stand beside, and who have you allowed to stand beside you? There’s a particular kind of strength in knowing how to stand beside someone. To stay when things are difficult. To notice what they need before they have to explain it. To learn the small details that make something easier,…
Christmas Tradition
ByCheryl“Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle all the way…” Yep – y’all know what time of year it is! It’s Christmas!! The most joyous time of the year. Many of us have family traditions to celebrate the season. This week I thought I’d share with you ours. We do several things that a lot of families…
Because a Little Bug Went Ka-CHOO!: What Happens After the First Domino Falls?
ByCherylSome stories become more interesting when you revisit them as an adult. Because a Little Bug Went Ka-CHOO! is one of those stories for me. I loved this book when I was a child. I grew up surrounded by Dr. Seuss books and the wonderfully strange worlds that came with them. Looking back now, I’m…
What Are You Choosing by Not Choosing?
ByCheryl“Not everything that is faced can be changed; but nothing can be changed until it is faced.” James Baldwin, “As Much Truth as One Can Bear” But what does it actually mean to face something? We often picture facing a situation as immediate action: making the call, having the conversation, choosing the path, setting the…
10 Ways to Fight the Funk
ByCherylThe past few weeks have been hard. My meds have quit working, as I discussed in an earlier post (When the Meds Stop Working). I’m happy to report though that my psychiatrist has upped the dosage and I should be feeling better very soon. Thank God!! As I’ve said before, every day is a struggle…
A Talk With Aidan About His Asperger’s
ByCherylAfter having sat down with Paix a while back asking her about her Bi-Polar, I had the idea of doing the same with Aidan and his Asperger Syndrome. We’ve had to have many conversations about his emotions and lack of emotion lately due to our current situation, so I thought now might be a good…